Basking in the Easter Joy

GRÜNEWALD, Matthias ResurrectionResurrection by Matthias Grünewald from Isenheim Altarpiece.

Of all the resurrection art, this is my favorite depiction of Christ rising. It’s because of the light shining right through Christ. Christ IS the light, Christ our Light. It makes me think of the theory of the imprinting of the Shroud of Turin, that there was some magnificent light, almost like a nuclear blast that would imprint that image. And this painting puts that into perspective.

I didn’t plan on waiting until Thursday in the Octave of Easter to post, but here I am. Frankly, Holy Week does wear me out….I mentioned that in my Holy Week Preparation post. Now we are in the Easter Season! He is alive! Jesus has conquered sin and death! There is less frenzy and more of recalling and enjoying. I wrote a post on ways to spread the rejoicing over 50 days at Catholic Culture. I know this must be a general feeling of relaxing, because my stats have gone way on views.

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Jonah and Holy Week (re-post)

One of the favorite activities we do at Holy Week is the Jonah Project. This is a repost which includes printable forms of the Jonah. My original post on this tradition is here: Lessons from Jonah.

A tradition in our house has become Lessons from Jonah during Holy Week, which was inspired by Mary Reed Newland from her The Year and Our Children. Her original instructions can be read online here and here.
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Jonah and Holy Week

A tradition in our house has become Lessons from Jonah during Holy Week, which was inspired by Mary Reed Newland from her The Year and Our Children. Her original instructions can be read online here and here.

Our materials were looking a bit shabby, and since they were originally crafted very hastily, I updated them this year. I loosely followed Mrs. Newland’s instructions to create Jonah, the fish (or whale), and a ship, but I’m not artist, so apologies if you cannot recognize these figures:

Now for something to do. This is an activity that sums up all that Jonas teaches. The children use it during Holy Week. You need 9″ X 12″ colored construction paper, scissors, paste, and your choice of crayons, paint, or inks, and glitter. If you get glitter, don’t forget a tube of glitter-glue to use with it. All these things can be found in the Five-and-Ten.

The fish, measuring 8″ X 5-1/2″, is cut from a folded piece of paper with the top of the head and tail on the fold. Paste the tails together and spread apart the base so that it will stand.

The ship is 6″ high and 6-1/2″ long, with the top of the sail on the fold. This is cut from one piece of folded paper. Cut another sail from another color and paste over the first; spread apart to stand.

Jonas is 3″ high with his hands on the fold. Paste his heads together and spread his legs apart.

Use different colors for each piece and decorate them to suit your fancy. On the sail of the ship we painted a single eye, a symbol of the watchfulness of God the Father, who saw Jonas run away and sent the storm at sea.

These .pdf files you can print on cardstock, color and cut, and fold to stand. From past experience, I recommend not cutting out the white space over Jonah’s head, or there will be trouble standing him up. There are two options for the fish. The larger one I use, tracing on a folded blue 12 x 12 paper from a local craft store — “Cardstock Stack”. But since not everyone has this lying around, I provided a smaller fish to print on 8 1/2 x 11 cardstock. I’m considering laminating or putting Contact paper at least on Jonah, as he gets the most wear. If you feel creative, add another sail to the ship. Frankly, I’d like to research what the ship would have looked like, because mine is not a convincing water-safe vessel.


Mrs. Newland continues:

This is how they are used. Pour yellow corn meal on a tray (if sand is not available), and the figures will stand up in it. At the beginning of Holy Week, Jonas is in the ship. Standing in the prow with his arms flung up like that, he looks as though he is about to be tossed overboard Good Friday he goes into the fish. On Easter Sunday, the first child awake runs downstairs to take him out of the fish and put him on the shore, where he stands with his arms upflung in a great and joyful Alleluia! On the mast of the ship he tapes a cross, because the ship is a symbol of Christ’s Church, born out of the graces of the Redemption, and the fish is an ancient symbol of Christ. Icthus is the Greek word meaning fish, and each letter is the initial Greek letter of each word in the Greek phrase Jesus Christ, Son of God, Saviour.

While the sand is a nuisance to clean, this is one week of the year I indulge in all the senses. Our base is a large wood tray with edges (the paintable kind from the craft stores), covered with aluminum foil (even the handles, so no sand comes leaking out). The shore and water lines are divided by a loose diagonal or straight line. The two different colored sands will go on either side. To keep the sands divided, I have used Sculpey clay, sometimes rocks on top of the clay or just rocks. The boys will touch it, and the colors will mix, but it’s a visual divider that we all like. (Note all these illustrations are from are old images, not the new ones above.)

We have reading to accompany our project:

Peter Spier’s Book of Jonah: My sons are immediately captivated by the story of Jonah, the odd names of Nineveh and Tarshish, and that wonderfully big fish. In discussing Jonah, I pointed out how he was in the fish for 3 days, just as Christ was in the tomb. And we put ashes on our forehead on Ash Wednesday to show repentance and change.

The Hard to Swallow Tale of Jonah and the Whale by Joyce Denham. Unfortunately, this book is no longer in print, but it’s worth tracking down a used copy or from your library.

While our copy of Spier’s book quotes directly from the Bible, some of it is a little lofty for a child. This book’s illustrations are fantastic, and the story, while not dumbed down, really reaches the heart of a child so he can understand how far-reaching is God’s compassion, and how Jonah was wrong to hide from God.

Don’t be fooled by the title to think the focus is merely on the whale part of the story, or a fictionalized or light-hearted approach. The book accurately retells the story of Jonah and Nineveh from start to finish.

And I found it wonderfully thrilling to see an illustration of the Jonah Project in another little booklet we read during Lent (Out-of-print, unfortunately), Spring and Lent by Rosemary Haughton.

While I usually put out Jonah on Palm Sunday, we’re a bit late this year…but he has time to sail on the boat before the fish swallows him.

May you have a blessed Triduum.

Holy Week and Easter Round-Up

I just compiled my Holy Week and Easter related posts. I find that when we enter more prayerful time, my blog has less revealed. It’s as if we enter our cloister and sharing all our family’s plans and events when they are happening is breaking the rules. It’s not intentional…but I do see this pattern after 5 years of blogging. Most of these posts happen before or after the events…

Various Posts for Reading, Planning, Triduum

Easter — Eggs, Vigil, Crafts

Recipes

Holy Thursday in the Home

I posted this over at Catholic Cuisine but am repeating it here. Originally published in 2009.

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In a few days we begin the holiest days of the year, the Sacred Triduum.

In planning for Holy Week, my first thoughts go to menu planning. Is it good that I’ll be doing extra things in the kitchen to prepare for Holy Week? Am I being more of a Martha than Mary and detracting from the feast? I watched Joanna Bogle’s Feasts and Seasons on EWTN and she also mentioned something about being in the kitchen more during holydays such as Holy Week than the rest of the year. She had an opposite opinion and allayed my fears — spending the extra time making these treats for the holy days marks the time and food as special, unique. She said it more eloquently, but it made me feel more confident to continue.

Holy Thursday is marked with many food traditions. I’m sharing my Holy Thursday meal traditions, but also wanted to mention a few cultural ones from around the world.

Traditions of Holy Thursday

Father Francis X. Weiser, S.J., The Easter Book (1954) explains the popular names of Holy Thursday:

The second day of the celebration of Tenebrae bears the liturgical name “Thursday of the Lord’s Supper” (Feria Quinta in Coena Domini). Of its many popular names the more generally known are:

  • Maundy Thursday (le mande; Thursday of the Mandatum) — The word Mandatum means “commandment.” This name is taken from the first words sung at the ceremony of the washing of the feet, “A new commandment I give you” (John 13, 34); also from the commandment of Christ that we should imitate His loving humility in the washing of the feet (John 13, 14-17). Thus the term Mandatum (maundy) was applied to the rite of the feet-washing on this day.
  • Green Thursday — In all German-speaking countries people call Maundy Thursday by this name (Gründonnerstag). From Germany the term was adopted by the Slavic nations (zeleny ctvrtek) and in Hungary (zold csutortok). Scholars explain its origin from the old German word grunen (to mourn) which was later corrupted into grün (green). Another explanation is that in many places, before the thirteenth century, green vestments were used for the Mass that day.
  • Pure or Clean Thursday — This name emphasizes the ancient tradition that on Holy Thursday not only the souls were cleansed through the absolution of public sinners but the faithful in all countries also made it a great cleansing day of the body (washing, bathing, shaving, etc.) in preparation for Easter. Saint Augustine (430) mentioned this custom. The Old English name was “Shere Thursday” (meaning sheer, clean), and the Scandinavian, Skaer torsdag. (Because of the exertions and thoroughness of this cleansing in an age when bathing was not an everyday affair, the faithful were exempted from fasting on Maundy Thursday.)
  • Holy or Great Thursday — The meaning of this title is obvious since it is the one Thursday of the year on which the sacred events of Christ’s Passion are celebrated. The English-speaking nations and the people of the Latin countries use the term “Holy,” while the Slavic populations generally apply the title “Great.” The Ukrainians call it also the “Thursday of the Passion.” In the Greek Church it is called “The Holy and Great Thursday of the Mystic Supper.”

In some Latin countries sugared almonds are eaten by everybody on Maundy Thursday. From this custom it bears the name “Almond Day” in the Azores. In central Europe the name “Green Thursday” inspired a tradition of eating green things. The main meal starts with a soup of green herbs, followed by a bowl of spinach with boiled or fried eggs, and meat with dishes of various green salads.

Easter the World Over by Priscilla Sawyer Lord and Daniel J. Foley (1971) mention the Czechoslovakian traditions for Holy Thursday. I’m not sure if this is a Czech or a Slovak tradition:

On Green Thursday (Holy Thursday) the Czechoslovakians eat “Judases” and greens–a soup of green herbs followed by a green salad. Housewives busy themselves with the preparation of the Easter foods that will be consumed on the holy weekend. They say:

Soon will come Green Thursday
When we shall bake the Lamb;
We shall eat Judases farina
And three spoonfuls of honey.

“Judasas” are served with honey at breakfast in Czechoslovakia. These are breakfast cakes of twisted dough, made to look like rope, suggesting the fate of Judas the Betrayer, who “went and hanged himself” in remorse after he had identified Jesus to His enemies. Honey is considered a preventive against disaster (p. 58).

I have searched through all my books and on the Internet, and I cannot find any recipes for Judases in the English Language. If I had the Czechoslovakian word perhaps I’d have better luck. It’s been mentioned as a bread, sometimes a cake, but no recipe.

Jennifer already mentioned the tradition of eating green for Green Thursday, including a wonderful recipe for Spinach Pie. Evelyn Vitz in A Continual Feast suggests a Seven-Herb Vichyssoise, and fish with a green herb butter, spinach, a mixed green salad, and green desserts such as Mint or Pistachio Ice Cream or Lime Sherbet. The custom of the green foods can be traced to the Jewish Passover meal with the bitter herbs, but also a health focus, as spring is arriving, and the green herbs provide a healthy spring cleansing. Since some people serve all green meals on St. Patrick’s Day, that would be another place for inspiration for serving green foods.

Passover Meal

Since I was a young girl my family has gathered to celebrate a Holy Thursday meal. We never called it a Seder, sometimes we called it a Passover meal. But the purpose was to remember Jesus’ Last Supper, and to prepare the family for their participation at the evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper. I did try to learn more about the Jewish Seder meal, and over the years we would try to be more “authentic”. But the men in my family were always a good barometer — “Why are we doing this? We’re not Jewish.” We are Catholics trying to unite with Jesus, not necessarily the Jewish faith. I found in my reading that the current Seder meal wasn’t established until after 70 A.D., and most sources say 500 years after Christ’s death. So after thinking about it, why would I implement a ritual that was written after Christ, still awaiting the Messiah when He has already come? Wouldn’t it make more sense to look back at the Old and New Testament and just imitate what Jesus the Messiah did at His Last Supper?

So while it was interesting to study, I realized I wasn’t sharing the night with Christ. I respect the Jewish religious ritual of a Seder meal, but not something to implement in my home. I used the Old Testament and New Testament as inspiration. Francis Fernandez (In Conversation With God, Volume 2) mentions that the Last Supper is “to be the last Jewish Passover and the first Passover in which her Son is both Priest and Victim” (p. 252). (See also The Hunt for the Fourth Cup by Dr. Scott Hahn.) So I want to look forward to our Paschal Feast, which is the Mass, and particularly the Easter Vigil liturgy.

I found it so interesting that in Celebrating the Faith in the Home: Lent and Easter in the Christian Kitchen by Laurie Navar Gill and Terea Zepeda (available from Emmanuel Books) that Mrs. Gill came to a similar conclusion:

The “Christian Seder” or Passover meal on Holy Thursday has become popular in some circles in the past few decades. I have attended such dinners and have even tried to put one on myself. I enjoyed learning more about the Jewish Passover traditions as Our Lord observed them — the symbolic foods, the toasts, the questions and the beautiful Jewish blessing prayers.

Yet my own sense is that too closely to imitate a Jewish Passover rings falsely at my table. Our Holy Thursday menu does include some symbolic foods from the Passover meal. We
read about both the Exodus of Jews and the story of the Last Supper, but we do not imitate the narrative and blessings from the Jewish observance.

Instead, we try to concentrate on the fulfillment of the Passover in Jesus. Through His blood, He has saved us from death. And in the Holy Eucharist, He feeds us with His own flesh and blood. The high point of our Holy Thursday observance is our participation in the true carrying on of that last Passover meal. No re-enactment around our table, no matter how authentic, can compare with the Truth that we encounter in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.

While reading Rumer Godden’s In This House of Brede, I was struck by the description of Holy Week in the Benedictine Monastery. While this is a fictitious work, the author based the writings on actual convent life. I have the whole quote here but I loved this description of the table for Holy Thursday dinner, and have used it as inspiration for my own table:

On that same day, the Abbess, following her Master’s example, became the servant of the whole community, serving them at midday dinner. The sight of the refectory was inviting: each place was laid with a snow-white napkin, a glass of wine, a bunch of grapes, a small wheaten loaf, and a brown earthenware bowl of vegetable soup. Apricot puffs and cheese were laid along the side tables. When the nuns were seated, the Abbess came in, wearing a white apron and white sleeves, and with her came the kitchener, Sister Priscilla, bearing a great silver salver of fish. The Abbess went to every nun, serving her and laying beside her plate a nose-gay of small flowers: violets, wood anemones, primulas, grape hyacinths, tiny ferns, pink heaths.

Father Francis Weiser from his Religious Customs in the Family gives some wise instructions on a family celebrating a Passover-type meal on Holy Thursday:

In many homes the memory of the Last Supper is brought out by the arrangement of the main meal in the evening. Of late the custom has been suggested in various books and pamphlets, of imitating the ancient Passover meal even in its details. A yearling lamb is to be roasted and served with bitter herbs and a brown sauce. Jewish matzos, together with wine, are to be distributed by the father in silence to all members of the family, thus commemorating the institution of the Blessed Sacrament.

The use of some pious “ritual” at the supper on Holy Thursday is surely to be recommended. However, an imitation of the Last Supper of our Lord in its details does not seem to be advisable. Children, with their gift of keen and faithful observation, might easily conceive the ritual at the family table as a “photographic” reproduction of the Last Supper and thus acquire inaccurate and unhistorical notions about it. To mention only one example, are we sure that Christ used massah (unleavened bread) of the shape and size of modern Jewish “matzos”?

Our Holy Thursday Meal

I love how Florence Berger in Cooking for Christ answers the apostles’ question:

Whenever I hear Peter and John asking the Lord, “Where wilt Thou that we prepare the Pasch?” I want to interrupt and say, “Come to our house, please do.” But even today we, as Catholics, can bring Christ and His friends home with us. When we receive the Holy Eucharist on Maundy Thursday, He lives within us. When we gather guests at our tables to re-enact the last supper, Christ is in our midst. For, as the antiphon of Holy Thursday sings, “where charity and love are, there is God.” There is a divine bond between our altar and our home.

Holy Thursday celebrates the institution of the Sacrament of the Eucharist and the Sacrament of Holy Orders. The Eucharist was established within the Passover meal by Jesus with His Apostles. A wonderful way to bring home the richness of this feast is to imitate the Last Supper by recalling some aspects of the Passover meal, and a foot washing ceremony with the family in imitation of Jesus. This a wonderful tradition to start in the family. If things are rushed on Holy Thursday, move the meal sometime before Holy Thursday (Wednesday night, for example) so that the whole family can participate in imitating Christ at the Last Supper.

The idea is serving foods reminiscent of the Passover meal as the Jews did in Egypt and Christ did in imitation of the Exodus, not in imitation of Judaic religion. Elements of the Mass of the Lord’s Supper are included to prepare us for participation at the Mass of the Lord’s Supper. Incorporating the various senses in this meal really helps active participation, particularly for children.

Holy Thursday is one of the biggest feasts in the Church year, since it commemorates the institution of Holy Orders and of the Holy Eucharist. Sunday-best should be worn by participants and the table should be beautifully decorated, with a white tablecloth (in imitation of the white vestments used at Mass) and even the good china and silver. For dessert (since this is a special feast day, no Lenten abstaining here), bake a cake in the shape of a lamb (there are numerous types of lamb molds available at craft stores or baking supply stores). Before or during the dinner, Exodus 12:1-20 is read —- the story of the first Passover. Then the New Testament reading about the Last Supper and the institution of the Eucharist is read from either Matt 26:17:30; Mark 14:12-26 or Luke 22:7-20.

Simple Menu Suggestions:

These ideas are loosely following the instructions in Exodus, “A lamb…a year-old male lamb without blemish…That same night they shall eat its roasted flesh with unleavened bread and bitter herbs….”

  • Bitter Herbs: Cooked spinach and raw celery sticks dipped in salt water, mixed green salad (the greens also incorporate the “Green Thursday” tradition)
  • Unleavened bread: Crackers or store-bought matzohs, pita bread or homemade unleavened bread
  • Wine: red wine and/or grape juice
  • Lamb: Leg of lamb, or roast lamb, lamb chops, or meatloaf baked in shape of lamb (use a lamb cake mold)
  • Haroset: Applesauce with raisins, reminding of the bricks and mortar the Jews laid in Egypt. (This is an additional element we have added.)

Our Holy Thursday Dinner Menu:

  • Roast Beef (Reminder of the Passover Lamb, and Christ the Paschal Lamb)
  • Mashed Potatoes (allergy free)
  • Spinach (reminder of the bitter herbs)
  • Applesauce (reminder of the Charoses, the bricks and mortar in Egypt)
  • Bread (reminder of the Unleavened Bread and the Eucharist)
  • Grapes (reminder of the wine of the Last Supper which becomes the Blood of Christ)
  • Dessert (Because it’s a festive day in the eyes of the Church)

Since we leave for the Mass that evening, we usually don’t have wine, but I will serve grape juice.

Our family doesn’t like the taste of lamb, so I’m actually serving roast beef. It looks similar to lamb. It seems Holy Week has extra constraints, so while I want to make a festive meal, sometimes time, energy, (and nowadays) and budget is lacking. One year my mother actually made a meatloaf in the lamb cake mold pan. Definitely memorable.

We’re saving the lamb cake for Easter, and I will choose a dessert that won’t have leftovers to taunt us during Good Friday. Depending on my time, I might make unleavened bread, following Maria von Trapp’s recipe. If I use regular bread it will be small individual loaves at each place setting. For my son with food allergies, I will serve gluten free bread sticks. Another alternative is serving Hot Cross Buns, again, like Maria Von Trapp.

Before eating, the family gathers for the “Washing of the Feet”, which I’ve described here in a previous post.

The children are reminded that this meal is different than what the Jews celebrate because Christ already died and saved us, so we are not still awaiting a Messiah. We are not obliged to follow the directives for the Passover meal, we are merely doing it in imitation of Christ, so we can use all of our senses to know, love and serve Christ. While eating the reading from Exodus 12: 1-20, the story of the First Passover, is read out loud. This is the same first reading at the Mass of the Lord’s Supper.

The meal is simple, joyful, and family-friendly, and wonderful preparation to enter more deeply into the liturgy of the Sacred Triduum.

Easter Round-Up

This is the day the Lord has made, Alleluia!
Let us rejoice and be glad in it, Alleluia!

The Empty Tomb

It’s amusing to me that I never realized how “action-packed” the Gospel is until now that I see it through the eyes of my son. There are Romans and soldiers through the Passion, which makes it quite exciting to listen. And since this is Year A, and we heard St. Matthew’s account of the Resurrection at the Easter Vigil. My son especially liked this verse: “The guards were shaken with fear of him and became like dead men.”

Above is our Tomb display. We had to recreate the Roman soldiers, of course. They are the ones lying down, like dead men. If you look closely there’s one small Playmobil Roman soldier in there, too. It was a compromise — I didn’t want the Legion at the tomb.

Lenten Lamb Calendar

We completed our Lamb calendar, thanks to Matilda and Karen E.

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Our Easter picture:
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And just a few random shots. I love sleeping baby pictures! I’m still working on capturing on film those precious smiles!

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Two Brothers

The Triduum of Holy Week

One of my birthday gifts to myself was purchasing a used copy of In This House of Brede by Rumer Godden. Our library didn’t have a copy, and I’ve been eager to read it after hearing such wonderful praise from the ladies at 4RealLearning Forums. So this week I was struck by this passage on Holy Week in the monastery:

For every religious, Holy Week is the most moving time of the year. At Brede the church was never empty; recreation was suspended, and each nun was quiet, withdrawn, except for the part she must play in choir. “In the liturgy of Tenebrae, of the last three days of Holy Week,” taught Dame Clare, “the Church mourns over Jerusalem and celebrates the Passion of our Lord in primitive chants drawn from the Jewish tradition itself; they must often have been on the lips of Christ and the apostles.” On Maundy Thursday Cecily was allotted the first lamentation and, as she prefaced each verse with the singing of the Hebrew alphabet, Aleph, Beth . . , she was doing what any of the apostles might have done in the synagogues along the sea of Galilee. “The psalm In Exitu, Israel” explained Dame Clare, “is the exact counterpart of that of the Jewish Passover night, and was probably sung by our Lord in the upper room.”

On that same day, the Abbess, following her Master’s example, became the servant of the whole community, serving them at midday dinner. The sight of the refectory was inviting: each place was laid with a snow-white napkin, a glass of wine, a bunch of grapes, a small wheaten loaf, and a brown earthenware bowl of vegetable soup. Apricot puffs and cheese were laid along the side tables. When the nuns were seated, the Abbess came in, wearing a white apron and white sleeves, and with her came the kitchener, Sister Priscilla, bearing a great silver salver of fish. The Abbess went to every nun, serving her and laying beside her plate a nose-gay of small flowers: violets, wood anemones, primulas, grape hyacinths, tiny ferns, pink heaths.

Later, in the chapter house, Abbess Catherine, girded with a towel, would kneel before twelve of her daughters, drawn by lot—”I must cut my toe-nails,” Dame Nichola had said in panic—and reverently wash their fret, just as Christ did to his apostles. “I have set you an example,” He told them, “to teach you what to do.” That night the Mass re-enacted the Last Supper, when Jesus took bread and broke it, took wine, and spoke the words that consecrated then and gave them to his disciples, the gift to the world for all time, of the Eucharist. Then, just as Christ had gone from the upper room to the garden of Gethsemane and was seized in the midst of his disciples, so the Host was taken from the altar’s tabernacle and borne in procession to a small side altar made welcoming with flowers and candles; the church was left stark, the high altar stripped of its linen, the doors of the empty tabernacle flung open. Bells were replaced by the dry sound of clappers.

For the long hours of the Good Friday vigil, a heavy wooden crucifix lay before the empty tabernacle as the nuns chanted and prayed the terrible saga through. The names mingled: Judas, Malchus, Annas, Caiaphas, Herod, Pontius Pilate, Barabbas, Simon of Cyrene: the women of Jerusalem, the two thieves, and the centurion: the two Marys who stood with our Lady at the foot of the cross. “The women didn’t run away,” said the Abbess.

Christ died and, as if the Abbey had died too, came the long pause of Holy Saturday— “Surely the longest day in the year,” said Dame Beatrice—until at night, hope came hack to the Church as, long ago, hope had come to the apostles. The new fire was kindled in the church porch, the huge Paschal candle, inscribed with the date of the civil year and painted with symbols of the Resurrection, was lit from that new fire and the priest took the first step inside the darkened empty church; he raised the candle and cried “Lumen Christi”—the light of Christ. Three times the cry echoed as the new light was passed from candle to candle, the boy servers who came from the town lighting their candles from the great one and bringing them to the wicket, where the Abbess met them with hers; she passed the fire to the rows of nuns, each holding her candle until the whole church was illuminated.

As the candles caught their light one from another. Cecily had a vision of the flame hunting in the same way from one church to another throughout Christendom, far around the world: new light, new joy, fresh hope. Thousands of candles, pure wax, wax of bees, made through the year by the wings and work of infinitesimal creatures like us, thought Cecily, made for this night. “This is the night,” intoned the priest, “the night on which heaven was wedded to earth. On this night Christ broke the bonds of death,” and, “The night shall be as light as day, the night shall light up my joy.”

The priest blessed the new water and led the renewal of baptismal vows until, just before midnight, Mass began, the first Mass of Easter, when linen, flowers, and candlesticks were brought back to the altar as the celebrant began the opening of the Gloria, ‘Gloria in excelsis Deo…’ Every bell, every stop on the organ, every voice joined in the triumphant response, ‘Glory to God on high,’ and it was Easter Sunday.

What really struck me was the description of their celebration on Holy Thursday, as it seemed similar to our family’s traditions. It has been a recent movement for many Christians to celebrate a Messianic seder meal sometime in Holy Week. I had been feeling that we had not been authentic enough, until last year this conversation Passover Sets gave me a different view. I don’t think it would be right to have a seder meal. This is part of the Jewish religion, and not established until 500 years AFTER Christ’s death. We are not Jews, but Catholics. What I can do is just remember the Exodus story and the Last Supper and bring in elements to highlight this feast, but not do a whole seder meal.

My mother always did an interpretation of the Passover Meal (this is an article I wrote for Catholic Culture) in our family. For years my siblings and our families would come together and share that meal. But now my mother can’t host the meal, so my own small family will be observing this feast day alone. I had to make plans and adjust to our size, my son’s age (and allergies) and make our traditions. With white tablecloth and candles and china and silver I will be serving lamb chops, spinach and celery, mashed potatoes, rolls, applesauce, grapes, and wine. The meal is more symbolic. I didn’t have time to make unleavened bread, but I’m incorporating bread as part of the meal. We shall wash our feet and then go to Church for the Mass of the Lord’s Supper. There my son can hear and witness similar elements at the Mass and be brought into more active participation because he can remember doing something similar at home, the Domestic Church.