On Humility

The Advent and Christmas seasons really bring to mind the virtue of humility. The Joyful mysteries are chock full of examples of humility in the early life of Christ. This is huge work in progress in my life.

I love praying the Litany of Humility

And recently someone pointed out this excellent examination of humility by St. Josemaria from The Furrow, no. 263:

Allow me to remind you that among other evident signs of a lack of humility are:

—Thinking that what you do or say is better than what others do or say;

—Always wanting to get your own way;

—Arguing when you are not right or — when you are — insisting stubbornly or with bad manners;

—Giving your opinion without being asked for it, when charity does not demand you to do so;

—Despising the point of view of others;

—Not being aware that all the gifts and qualities you have are on loan;

—Not acknowledging that you are unworthy of all honour or esteem, even the ground you are treading on or the things you own;

—Mentioning yourself as an example in conversation;

—Speaking badly about yourself, so that they may form a good opinion of you, or contradict you;

—Making excuses when rebuked;

—Hiding some humiliating faults from your director, so that he may not lose the good opinion he has of you;

—Hearing praise with satisfaction, or being glad that others have spoken well of you;

—Being hurt that others are held in greater esteem than you;

—Refusing to carry out menial tasks;

—Seeking or wanting to be singled out;

—Letting drop words of self-praise in conversation, or words that might show your honesty, your wit or skill, your professional prestige…;

—Being ashamed of not having certain possessions…

Making notes to add to my examen.

Prepare the Way of the Lord: Advent Resources

Advent begins later this year, December 2, so it’s a shorter Advent. I’m excited because there will be one week between Thanksgiving and the first Sunday of Advent — it’s always helpful to have that time to prepare. I’m currently updating some of my plans and files for 2012 (Liturgical Year 2012-13). I haven’t quite finished all my updates, especially for my reading plans, but keep returning to this post for the links and updates:

All my posts on Advent can be found if you choose the category “Advent” in the sidebar. Also in the top menu there is “Living the Liturgical Year”, and the subpage is Advent and Christmas which contains many printable pages I have on this website.

This looks daunting: but don’t be overwhelmed! This is a collection of our family’s traditions over the years. Just be aware of two things: 1) our traditions have developed over time, and more have been added over the years and 2) no year ever looks the same, and not everything is celebrated the same way. Sometimes feasts are not celebrated at all!

For the Christmas season and all related posts, see Christmas is Not Just One Day, But a Season: Resources Page. The Christmas page is less full, so all recipe and cookbook related links will be on that page.

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The Way of Trust and Love

Have I mentioned how much I love all of Father Jacques Philippe’s writings? I do think I’ve quoted him here from time to time. If you’re looking for profound, deep, power-packed yet practical and down-to-earth spiritual writing — Father Philippe is the author for you. And each of his books is short and sweet — another bonus for busy moms!

I’m reading his latest book, The Way of Trust and Love – A Retreat Guided by St. Thérèse of Lisieux, printed by Scepter. There is also a Kindle version available. Oh, and Sacred Heart Books and Gifts also carries this and most of Philippe’s books in print version, at a discount. Linda has such great taste in books!

My favorite spiritual book for over 20 years has been I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Thérèse of Lisieux by Father Jean C. J. d’Elbée. After disliking St. Therese as a young girl because she was syrupy sweet and melancholic, I wholeheartedly embraced her since I was in my 20s. She is definitely my favorite saint, due mainly to how Father d’Elbée really captured The Little Way and showed how Confidence and Trust is what I really needed. I was failing so often, and trying to pull myself up by my own bootstraps. No need anymore, because Jesus loves me not in spite of my failing but because of my failings!

It was this book that helped me pick my husband. When we first met, he asked for some recommendation for spiritual reading for Lent, so I mentioned this book. He read it, and  loved it — and I knew he was the right man for me!

So fast forward to the present. I have enjoyed all of Father Philippe’s books. The underlying theme in all his books is The Little Way, or Way of Trust and Love. The Way of Trust and Love most clearly defines it, and it is as rich as  I’m not even finished and I find myself pondering just a small sentence for a week or so. I find this book echoes and even goes deeper in some areas as I Believe in Love.

To share a few quotes, here is Father’s introduction of what is The Little Way:

So what is this little way? It is the spiritual journey undertaken by Thérèse, a genuine path to holiness, but a path accessible to everyone, so that nobody can get discouraged, not even the littlest, the poorest, or the most sinful–so that everyone can discover a path of life, of conversion, open to him or her.

He shares the background that she was looking for an elevator to take her straight to Jesus.

Where could she find this elevator? Where did Thérèse go to look for it? To the Bible.

This is worth noting. Thérèse had a great love for Holy Scripture. All the lights that guided her along the way, all her great spiritual intuitions, she found in Scripture. Every time a question came up that upset her a little, she went to the Bible to find the answer. She received astonishing lights that enabled her to acquire a deep understanding of the Scriptures….

The Bible is not a privileged possession of Protestants: all believers, absolutely, must be nourished on Scripture. It is particularly vital for today, and we should ask St. Thérèse to obtain this grace for us. We live in a world with a lot of confusion and many contradictory messages…Only God’s Word, passed on to us in a special way in Scripture, has the necessary depth, clarity, and authority to help us find our way. Only Scripture enables us to discover the truth, not as something abstract, but as God’s presence in our lives and the very specific way he offers us day after day.

True, Scripture is sometimes enigmatic and hard to interpret. However, if we spend at least ten minutes a day reading it, meditating on it, and praying about it, it will speak to our hearts. We should never let a day pass without taking some minutes to read and pray about a text from the Bible such as the readings for that day or a psalm….

His little parenthetical remark really struck me:

To express her gratitude she once again makes use of the Bible, quoting from Psalm 71 (we will never find anything better than the psalms to express our praise):

I’ve been thinking how rich are the Psalms. I love praying the Divine Office, and I just am amazed on how these prayers, written centuries ago echo my heart’s prayer to God. The Psalms ARE perfect prayers!

Finally, my reading today was on humility, on what it is and what it isn’t. Such powerful words that really struck home:

People sometimes have a false idea of humility. Real humility isn’t condemning or despising ourselves, saying scornfully to ourselves, “You’re worthless, you’re useless.” Just the opposite: it is accepting ourselves peacefully as we are–our littleness, physical limitations, psychological weaknesses, lack of courage or virtue, the difficulty we have in praying, all the wretchedness present in our lives, whether physical, mental, or even spiritual. Being humble means consenting to our inner poverty. First of all, recognizing it, because sometimes we don’t want to face it, but above all accepting it!

With a bit of clear thinking, we can manage more or less to see our inner poverty. But accepting it is more difficult. We would all like to be more intelligent than we are, stronger, better-looking, more virtuous, more spiritual, more this, more that, in any and every sphere of our lives. We can easily get discouraged by the way we are.

Now, very often what prevents God’s grace from acting in depth in our lives, and is therefore a kin of sin, is this failure or refusal to accept ourselves as we are: our past, our mistakes, our physique, what we are on the human level, our psychological make-up, our weaknesses, and all the rest.

So well put! How often do I feel discouraged by my lacks — not losing weight, not organized, not disciplined, my school year and prayer life in the hopper.

So that’s a little taste of the writing. It’s all very applicable to MY life and I’m so grateful to St. Therese and Father Philippe.

Another reason St. Thérèse is a favorite saint in our family? We were engaged to be married on October 1, her feast day! It was a deliberate choice of Dh, and a very fond memory for me.

St. Clare of Assisi

I’d rather be blogging. I know there have been few posts this summer, but really I do like to write. I write in my head all the time. But it’s crunch time over here. We’re in the middle of painting on our main level, which includes our school area. Suffice it to say, that the school year hinges on me using all my spare time to scrape off wallpaper. After that there’s painting, then purging, reorganizing, and THEN planning for school. It’s a mad rush.

Squeeze in there new window treatments, some made by me, and possibly new floors…although I will do school planning first. It’s August, after all!

But I had to take a little break and share this new blog for the feast of St. Clare: Food and Festivities of the Christian Year. We had a new babysitter this spring, and I chatted with her as I was picking her up and driving her home. We talked about the Liturgical Year and how it’s been one of my favorite subjects, when she said her mother’s friend was working on a cookbook on the Liturgical Year. I had not heard of her (later I found she is mentioned in the Foreword of Evelyn Vitz’s cookbook), but I was eager to meet someone who shared the same love. Colleen did not disappoint. She is so lovely and faithful. She is so more seasoned than I, so I love to read and hear her perspective. When she reopened her blog, I had to share it!

Her post today on St. Clare is wonderful — what a clever (and delicious) idea of eclairs!

This feast of St. Clare ends the 800th anniversary of the Poor Clare nuns. I’ve written before how special this saint is to our family, particularly to my mother, who is a Third Order Franciscan.

I am looking for a good biography about St. Clare. My favorite author, Mother Mary Francis, wrote one on St. Collette, but not St. Clare. Her other books all glean wisdom from their Holy Mother Clare, but it’s not quite the same.

Next week I’ll be able to announce another special project I’ve been working with Colleen. Stay tuned!

St. John Vianney

I can never forget that August 4 is the feast of the Cure d’Ars. I was 16 and entered the convent on that day. Our family lived in Louisiana, the convent was in Boston. I was sent home on November 4 — exactly 3 months later. It was simultaneously a testing time, a trying time, a wonderful time, a memorable time.

So August 4 made an impression on me, and now 29 years to the day, it still brings back vivid memories.

But that wasn’t the point of this post. I started thinking about the date, then the saint, then the books I have really liked about St. John Mary Vianney. And since I love to talk about books….here I am!

I haven’t seen many people talk about the Children’s books by Magnificat, also distributed by Ignatius Press. I’ve been requesting my library to carry them, especially the saint biographies. I have been super pleased! The illustrations are beautiful, not cartoony. The text really paints a human portrait of a saint, but not written in childish text. The biographies have inspired my boys to imitation of virtues and prayerful life. What more can I ask from a saint biography? These biographies are the answer for shorter books before a child is ready for chapter books.

John Mary Vianney: The Holy Cure of Ars is the first in the series we read. The book truly captures his life and service. The book accurately portrays the beloved priest of Ars but in a loving and inspiring manner for children. Reading this book aloud to my boys made me love this little saint all over again.

The Chapter book I highly recommend is The Man Who Fought the Devil by Eva K. Betz. She is one of my favorite Catholic authors. Neumann Press has reprinted this wonderful book. I have to admit that I was a little scared in reading about his fights with the devil (but a “good” scared, such “fear of the Lord” and doing what’s right!). But if your child is super sensitive, hold off until he/she can handle it a little better. But as far as gripping and well-written biography, this is excellent. I haven’t listened to the recording so I can’t recommend it or not (Librivox is SUCH a mixed bag!), but there is a Librivox recording. The image on the Librivox page is the front cover of the original book. Neumann Press reprint doesn’t have this image.

For teens and adults, the classic by Abbe Francois Trochu The Cure D’Ars : St. Jean-Marie-Baptiste Vianney is a MUST read, although don’t read before bedtime. I read this as a young woman, and was a little scared by the devil’s nightly visits. Now that I’m older I realize I’m too sinful to have the devil spend so much time on me, but rational thought doesn’t always flow at night-time. Otherwise, such an inspiring and wonderful look at this humble and holy saint.

I know I’ve been quiet, and I have lots of posts planned, but in time!

I Have a New Patron Saint

Today (October 19) is the memorial of Sts. Isaac Jogues and John de Brebeuf, priests and martyrs and companions, otherwise known as the “North American Martyrs”. These saints include: Isaac Jogues, John de Brebeuf, Gabriel Lalemant, Noel Chabanel, Charles Garnier,
Anthony Daniel, Rene Goupil and John de Lalande, the first six Jesuit priests, the last two Jesuit lay brothers. The Catholic Church in North America was founded through the blood of these martyrs (and others), and I want to concentrate on learning more about their sacrifices for the Faith. What these Jesuit priests and lay brothers endured to spread Christianity is amazing — truly super human, obviously only accomplished through grace and total love of God.

I have always had a particular soft spot for St. Isaac and St. Jean, particularly St. Jean. My parents recently made a trip to Niagara Falls, some old Canadian towns and the two shrines of the martyrs, and this year my sister’s family visited the same sites, since my oldest nephew was taking the name St. Jean for his confirmation saint.

The first place is the National Shrine of the North American Martyrs in Auriesville, New York. Here is the site of the martyrdom of St. Rene Goupil (1642), Jesuit brother: St. Isaac Jogues (1646), Jesuit priest: and St. John Lalande (1646), and also the birthplace of Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha.

The other shrine Martyrs’ Shrine is located in Midland, Ontario, Canada. Sts. John de Brebeuf, Gabriel Lalemant, Noel Chabanel, Charles Garnier, and Anthony Daniel died near this shrine. Pope John Paul II visited this shrine in 1984, and here is his address he made during that visit.

This morning I was reading from the Magnificat and was struck by the fact that St. Jean de Brebeuf died on my birthday. As my birthday has no feast on the General Roman Calendar, I decided right then that he would be my patron. My mother called me a few hours later and was thinking along the same lines — I have a new patron saint. Not only that, my name is Jennifer, which is a form of Joan and John. For all these years I’ve yearned for a particular saint, even a particular St. John to be named after. But today, my mother decided with me that St. Jean would be my saint from now on!

I have been pondering all day the quote from St. Jean in the Magnificat, particularly:

The Fathers and Brothers whom God shall call to the holy mission of the Hurons ought to exercise careful foresight in regard to all the hardships, annoyances, and perils that must be encountered in making this journey, in order to be prepared for all emergencies that may arise….
This lesson is very easy to understand but very difficult to put into practice. Having left a highly civilized society, we are now in the midst of a barbarous people who care nothing for our philosophical and theological education. All the fine qualities that make us admired and respected in France are like pearls tramples under the feet of swine, or rather, mules, which despise us utterly when they see that we are not such good pack animals as they. If we could go naked and carry on our backs the load that a horse carries, then we would be wise according to their views and would be recognized as great men, otherwise not. Jesus Christ is our true greatness; it is he alone and his crosses that should be sought in ministering to these people. If we seek for anything else, we will find nothing but bodily and spiritual afflictions. But if we have found Jesus Christ in his cross, we have found the roses among the thorns, sweetness in bitterness, all in nothing.

Written in 1683, I think of our own soft plush society, and how it would be to make this transition. What a sacrifice he made!

In reading some of the short biographies, there were some interesting facts I enjoyed. One, St. Jean suffered ill-health, which meant he couldn’t advance in theological studies, but he was able to undertake this very arduous mission. His work did not thrive — he tried over and over again without gaining one convert. And yet he persevered and kept returning until he did touch some souls. I never pictured him as a large man, but the descriptions say he was big, and heavy. I presume that meant he was stocky — the Indians were a bit hesitant to have him in their canoes because of his largeness. He had great difficulty learning the Huron tongue, but yet when he did, he wrote a catechism in the Huron language and a French-Huron dictionary for the Jesuits.

And he also wrote the verses in Huron for one of our favorite Christmas carols. On this feast day, and also through Christmas, our family loves to sing the gift left by St. Jean de Brebeuf, the carol “‘Twas
in the Moon of Wintertime”
or “The Huron Carol”. The melody was a traditional French tune, and Father Jean de Brebeuf used the native Huron language to teach the Nativity story. The melody is so hauntingly beautiful, and the words are so simple and reverent. It has always been one of my favorite carols…and when I found out the origination of the words, I loved it even more. My boys enjoy it just as much, and I find them humming and singing it all through the Christmas season. Last year my son even tried to have his atrium learn and sing this carol, just because he loved it so. The melody is haunting, and the words are simple but very reverent.

To aid singing the carol, we use these picture books: The Huron Carol illustrated by Frances Tyrrell is a picture book retelling the story of
this Christmas carol. The
Huron Carol
 illustrated by Ian Wallace is another similar book and also a perfect accompaniments for this feast day. My boys can’t pick a favorite, so we always sing from both of the books.

And for those that say history can be written all through sports, here’s a neat tidbit. It has been said that John de Brebeuf named the Indian game “lacrosse” because the stick used reminded him of a bishop‘s crosier (la crosse). And now it is our present-day game lacrosse.

Food to eat:
Huron Indian food: corn, squash, beans, sunflowers, game meat  – cornbread
More (gruesome) food would be considering the kind of sufferings the saints endured.

St. Isaac Jogues – some kind of “finger food”, ladyfingers, Catholic Cuisine has a few “finger” recipes.

For All Souls Day there are many recipes for “bone” type foods, sugar skulls. Since part of Father Jean’s skull is a relic on display in Midland, Ontario, a skull would be very appropriate!

Father Jean also died through fire, knives, and his heart was eaten after he died. Heart shaped foods would recall the later part, and foods related to fire or knives (skewered, shishkabobs, etc.) for the former.

Coloring Pages: North American Martyrs

For further reading:

Brebeuf’s Instructions to the Missionaries: List of instructions for Jesuit missionaries to the Hurons, written in 1637.

  • You must love these Hurons, ransomed by the blood of the Son of God, as brothers.
  • You must never keep the Indians waiting at the time of embarking.
  • Carry a tinder-box or a piece of burning-glass, or both, to make fire for them during the day for smoking, and in the evening when it is necessary to camp; these little services win their hearts.
  • Try to eat the little food they offer you, and eat all you can, for you may not eat again for hours.
  • Eat as soon as day breaks, for Indians when on the road, eat only at the rising and the setting of the sun.
  • Be prompt in embarking and disembarking and do not carry any water or sand into the canoe.
  • Be the least troublesome to the Indians.
  • Do not ask many questions; silence is golden.
  • Bear with their imperfections, and you must try always to appear cheerful.
  • Carry with you a half-gross of awls, two or three dozen little folding knives, and some plain and fancy beads with which to buy fish or other commodities from the nations you meet, in order to feast your Indian companions, and be sure to tell them from the outset that here is something with which to buy fish.
  • Always carry something during the portages.
  • Do not be ceremonious with the Indians.
  • Do not begin to paddle unless you intend always to paddle.
  • The Indians will keep later that opinion of you which they have formed during the trip.
  • Always show any other Indians you meet on the way a cheerful face and show that you readily accept the fatigues of the journey.

Links:
Catholic Encyclopedia on Jean de Brebeuf
Patron Saints Index
Catholic Treasure Chest of Fun and Fact
Catholic Educators, Canadian Martyrs, Also known as North American Martyrs
The Jesuit Relations

For Younger Readers:
From the Daughters of St. Paul Encounter the Saints series, there is Saint
Isaac Jogues: With Burning Heart
by Christine Virginia Orfeo.
There’s also the Vision Book Saint
Isaac and the Indians
 by Milton Lomask, about St. Isaac Jogues, a Vision book.
Cross Among the Tomahawks by Milton Lomask, about St. Jean de Brebeuf, former Clarion book, reprinted by Hillside Education.

And for more advanced (adult) readers:
The Jesuit Missionaries to North America: Spiritual Writings and Biographical Sketches by Francois Roustang
The North American Martyrs: Jesuits in the New World by Lillian M. Fisher.
Saint Among the Savages by Francis Talbot, SJ, about St. Isaac Jogues.

Out-of-Print Saint Among the Hurons by Francis Talbot, SJ about St. Jean de Brebeuf.

St. Anthony of Padua and Ordinary Time

Today is (June 13) the feast of St. Anthony of Padua.

St. Anthony is a family patron saint, and much loved. St. Anthony is very good about helping us find lost articles…sometimes REALLY important articles, sometimes just little things.

St. Anthony, St. Anthony
Please come around
Something is lost
And can’t be found

Read some different ideas on how to honor and celebrate this saint from 4Real Forums.

Image of St. Anthony by Ade Bethune. Small holy cards of the image are available from Blue Cloud Abbey. For more about the artist, see Ade Bethune Collection. I love her simple drawings, rich in religious symbolism.

But sad to say, we didn’t make it to Mass today. A few members of the family are sick, including Daddy, and so we need to adjust for that. I’m trying to catch up, catch my breath. It’s been a whirlwind May, and now half of June — and with my Liturgical Year glasses on, I’d say Easter Season Was EXHAUSTING!

Yesterday was Pentecost, that most wonderful feast. I was getting goosebumps through Mass during the Responsorial Psalm — we all recognized it from the Easter Vigil: “Lord, send out Your Spirit, and renew the face of the earth.” How wonderful to see that continuum, the connection with the beginning of Easter and the end of the Easter season.

I do wish we had a Pentecost Octave. It feels so harsh and sudden to come down from the fiery tongues and celebrating the birthday of the Church to go back to the Green. I do understand that Ordinary Time IS the time of the Holy Spirit — it is us living Pentecost. We no longer can remain in our upper rooms, but must be the leaven and set fire to the world with the Good News!

But visually and spiritually the liturgical color green is a bit of letdown; it brings us back to the everyday. We return to the Angelus; and we will miss singing the Regina Caeli. Having eight days to settle and celebrate Pentecost would make the adjustment period a bit easier, don’t you think? I’m all for returning that octave from the 1962 calendar so we can have three octaves for the Liturgical Year: Christmas, Easter, and Pentecost.

I have talked about the season of Ordinary Time earlier this year. For us, we are visually seeing the “Growing Time” — our garden is slowly coming in, our flowers are blooming, and the grass doesn’t stop growing. Summertime is full of wonderful saints, and since the Liturgical season doesn’t take precedence over the saints days (except Sunday) we have more room (and reason) to celebrate the feast days. So I’m looking ahead and hoping to plan our reading and fun for these upcoming summer saints.

January 21: St. Agnes and Our Lady of Altagracia

This is a slightly revised post from last year:

Today is the Feast of St. Agnes, Virgin and Martyr.

Pope Benedict XVI has already blessed the two lambs whose wool will be used for the palliums (pallia?). From the Vatican:

BLESSING OF THE LAMBS FOR THE FEAST OF ST. AGNES

VATICAN CITY, 21 JAN 2010 (VIS) – This morning, in keeping with the tradition for today’s feast of St. Agnes, the Pope blessed a number of lambs in the Urban VIII Chapel of the Vatican Apostolic Palace.

The wool of the lambs is used to make the palliums bestowed on new metropolitan archbishops on June 29, Solemnity of Sts. Peter and Paul, Apostles.

The lambs are raised by the Trappist Fathers of the Abbey of the Three Fountains in Rome and the palliums are made from the newly-shorn wool by the sisters of St. Cecilia.

From this link is a description:

On the feast day, 21 January, the Trappist fathers of the Monastery of Tre Fontane (near Saint Paul’s Basilica) provide two lambs from their sheepfold to the Benedictine nuns of Saint Cecilia. They arrive at Saint Agnes’ Basilica wearing crowns, lying in “baskets decorated with red and white flowers and red and white ribbons—red for martyrdom, white for purity.”

This YouTubevideo is from last year, but gives a little peek at those adorable lambs. Blessing of the Lambs at the Feast of St. Agnes (I can’t seem to embed the video in WordPress.)  Here’s the clip for this year’s blessing.

We’ll also read today from Faces of Courage: Stories of Five Great Friends of God by Mary Berardi, printed by the Daughters of St. Paul which has beautiful color pictures. (This is out of print, and I saw various versions on Amazon for sale, but I linked to the one with the illustration, not for the !price.) The story of St. Agnes is so captivating, and the illustrations are so beautiful. The story is also included in the Fifty Seven Stories of Saints for Boys and Girls by the Daughters of St. Paul (older version).

This is one of my sister’s confirmation name, so I think and pray for her today. I love this little saint.

I’d be remiss if I don’t include the little legend for maidens. My cousin, without knowing, realized she found her husband on the feast of St. Agnes. From Feast Day Cookbook; The Traditional Catholic Feast Day Dishes of Many Lands by Katherine Burton and Helmut Ripperger:

In some countries Saint Agnes is the saint of maidens, especially those who are looking for husbands. The eve of her feast is considered an auspicious time to find out who will be one’s future mate, and there are several old-time ways said to achieve this. In England a girl took sprigs of thyme and rosemary, sprinkled them three times with water, put one on each side of her bed, and then recited:

Saint Agnes, who’s to lovers kind,
Come ease the trouble of my mind

In her dreams then she saw the face of her future husband. Sometimes a maid ate instead a salt-filled egg from which the yolk had been removed. In that case her future husband came to her in her dreams and offered her water. In certain parts of England, young women made cakes of flour, salt, and water (surely a fasting rather than a feasting dish), which were called ”dumb cakes” because without saying a word the young woman would go upstairs with one of these cakes–backwards, to make it harder–get into bed, eat her cake, and pray fervently to Saint Agnes. There seems to be no record of disappointments, and we trust that all of those to whom Saint Agnes showed the dream face of her future got her man. Nor is there any record of how these cakes were made.

The imagery evoked by that passage just gives me the giggles. “Salt-filled egg” — well, yes, I’d want a dream for anyone to give me water! And St. Agnes should have demanded more talent to bring to the marriage by having some tasty feast day treats baked by the maiden. Those “dumb-cakes” anyone dumb cluck could make. I think St. Agnes should have come down and asked the maiden “Now what do you have to offer for a young man? It’s not all about you!” My friend Mary has a more practical approach. If I wasn’t allergic to wool I’d totally embrace this idea! I have to stick to non-animal fibers.

Be sure to check out Waltzing Matilda’s beautiful Coloring Page for St. Agnes.

Our Lady of Altagracia
Today is also in the Dominican Republic the feast of Our Lady of Altagracia (Our Lady of Good Grace). We read last night A Gift of Gracias: The Legend of Altagracia by Julia Alvarez. As we were reading we thought of the neighboring country of Haiti, and was praying to Our Lady of Altagracia for the Haitians suffering so much in the earthquake.

Tonight we’ll read from Stories from the Americas by Frank Henius, illustrated by Leo Politi. This is an out-of-print treasure; it portrays a more account of Our Lady of Altagracia, and the illustration from Politi is priceless.

There are many ideas for Our Lady of Altagracia in this thread. She is the patroness of 4Real Forums.

Catholic Icing has compiled many crafts and food ideas for both St. Agnes and Our Lady of Altagracia.

From Catholic Cuisine:

St. Lucia of Syracuse, December 13

Updated 2012

This is repost of previous years’ postings, cross-posted with O Night Divine, with links all updated and a few additional links.

(Please also see my latest book review, Lucia, Saint of Light.)

December 13 is the Feast of St. Lucia or Lucy of Syracuse, Sicily.

From Lives of the Saints, Volume 3, by Catholic Press:

In the Roman Martyrology, Saint Lucy is called both virgin and martyr, and in both titles lies the secret of her sanctity in the Roman Empire of the fourth century. Recent excavations in Syracuse, the ancient capital of Sicily, revealed both her tomb and an inscription dating from the end of the fourth century that mentions her feast day. She is known to have been honored in Rome in the sixth century and she is mentioned in the Canon of the Mass. Lucy, whose name means “light” was invoked by the devout of the Middle Ages as the patroness of those afflicted with any eye disease. In art she is often shown carrying a dish with two eyeballs on it.

The poet Dante prayed to Saint Lucy for the relief of an eye ailment, and in his Divine Comedy he gave this saint one of the most honored places in heaven, next to that of Saint John the Baptist.

Much of what we are told about Saint Lucy may be legend. The earliest account of her martyrdom, although written some time before the sixth century, is not considered authentic.

Her legend can be found at Patron Saints Index.

eyes.jpgLucy means “light” and she is the patron of eye troubles and blindness. As mentioned above, she is often portrayed holding her eyeballs on a dish, although in the painting above by Francesco del Cossa has the eyes held in a more unique way. Her feast originally coincided with the Winter Solstice, the shortest day of the year before calendar reforms, so her feastday has become a feast of light…of course, not The Light, but pointing to Christ our Light.. There are so many approaches to thinking of light — Christ the Light of the World comes at Christmas; Christ our Light in the Paschal Candle at Easter; we see light through the gift of eyesight; we are enlightened by our Faith and grace; light comes through sunlight, fire, electricity; scientific analysis of the speed of light and the light spectrum, the rainbow colors…and this merely scratches the surface. All over the world we remember this virgin-martyr saint less than 2 weeks before Christmas. Whether you embrace the Lucia Child of Sweden, the Sicilian customs or particular family traditions, light should play a prominent role in the feast!

There was a real Saint Lucia, as you can see from Basilica of St. Lucy in Syracuse, Sicily that holds her relics, and there is a beautiful sepulchre. Don’t miss the beautiful depiction in the basilica by Caravaggio, “Burial of St. Lucia”.

I don’t have a daughter, so we don’t play up the Swedish Lucia much at home, at least so far. I decorate with a few Swedish items, and pictures of St. Lucy. I have a Brass Lucia Crown with real candles that I received as a Christmas present one year, a Dala horse, and Swedish Angel Chimes. I had a set of these as a young girl and loved seeing the candles and hearing the sweet soft chimes. I found mine at an antique store for a few dollars, and I thought it would be a perfect addition for a feast with light.

I wanted to decorate my brass wreath with lingonberry leaves, which are used in Sweden, but not native to USA. After much searching I found at one of the craft stores a long artificial garland with similar leaves and berries. Perhaps one day I’ll have a daughter who can wear the Lucia Crown. It seems that even in Sweden battery operated candles are the way to go. Safety first!

Coloring Pages and Paper Dolls

Craft and Party Ideas

Not all traditions for St. Lucia’s feast day are from Sweden. There is a Croatian and Hungarian custom of planting the St. Lucy Wheat on this day. See

There have been a few terrific blog posts in the past two years on preparing for the feast of St. Lucia from families who have experience, in baking, reading, crafting and celebrating:

Images: This site has almost every image of St. Lucia on holycards imaginable.

Books:

  • I reviewed Lucia, Saint of Light, which now runs the top of our Lucia book list. This story includes both the life of St. Lucia and the Swedish traditions of the Lucia bride.
  • Lucia: Child of Light by Florence Ekstrand. The history and tradition of Sweden’s Lucia celebration. Includes recipes, songs, and other traditions related to this Swedish celebration.
  • Lucia Morning in Sweden by Ewa Rydaker, with illustrations by Carina Stahlberg. A living story about Lucia Morning traditions in Sweden, but also includes recipes, music, and patterns for a Starboy and Lucia gown.
  • Kirsten’s Surprise: A Christmas Story by Janet Shaw, from The American Girls’ Collection. A wonderful story about Kirsten and her first Christmas in Minnesota and her struggle to make her Christmas similar to ones in Sweden, including her Lucia Morning. The companion cookbook Kirsten’s Cook Book includes a recipe for St. Lucia Buns.
  • If you’re blessed to own a copy, or your library has one, Hanna’s Christmas by Melissa Wiley Peterson is perfect for this feast day. See Annual Hanna’s Christmas Post and Hanna and Me and Karen’s St. Lucia’s Celebration.
  • Swedish Christmas in America by Catarina Lundren is a gorgeous cookbook, rich with pictures, recipes and traditions. Get some sneak previews from Christmas in Sweden.

Catalogs: These have great ideas for a Swedish unit or Swedish Lucia items. I’ve used both and have been very pleased.

Websites and Links:

Foods:

Not all foods for this feast day are Swedish. Italians and Sicilians have some wonderful recipes for celebrating this day, too. There are quite a few recipes on Catholic Culture including St. Lucia Cats, St. Lucy Buns, St. Lucia Crown…

The use of saffron in some of these recipes points back to the light reference, with the yellow reminding us of sunlight. A very simple approach to getting the yellow or saffron on the dinner table is making a variant of yellow rice. There are recipes from various cultures, or the simplest route of using box mix like Zatarains, Goya, or Mahatma.

For other recipes, see also:

Music

Prayers

Prayers to St. Lucy

Saint Lucy, you did not hide your light under a basket, but let it shine for the whole world, for all the centuries to see. We may not suffer torture in our lives the way you did, but we are still called to let the light of our Christianity illumine our daily lives. Please help us to have the courage to bring our Christianity into our work, our recreation, our relationships, our conversation every corner of our day. Amen.

St. Lucia, Pray for Us.

Thoughts about St. Elizabeth

Today is the Memorial of St. Elizabeth of Hungary. I have to admit all sorts of nostalgia regarding this saint. Since I was 7 we have dressed as saints for Halloween. The challenge for us was to find a unique saint that no one could guess, or, being a girl, find a saint that we could have an absolutely beautiful or fantastic costume (read: no nun costume).

So enticed by images such as this:

And this:

What girl wouldn’t want to dress up like a queen, wear a crown, and carry roses? This saint was a repeating portrayal for many years — all my sisters, my female cousins. As I now have my children involved in our local groups with All Saints Day saints, I see St. Elizabeth repeated again and again. The little girl who wants to be (and dress like) a princess and love God — here’s the perfect saint!

It was only until I was much, much older that I met that I straightened out some facts:

1) St. Elizabeth of Portugal and St. Elizabeth of Hungary, although seemingly the same in images and stories, are two different saints. St. Elizabeth of Hungary happens to be the great-aunt of St. Elizabeth of Portugal.

2) St. Elizabeth of Hungary became a Franciscan tertiary, the secular Third Order of St. Francis. She and St. Louis of France are the patron saints of the Secular Franciscan Order. My mother is a tertiary, so this saint is dear to her heart. (To confuse facts even more, it happens that St. Elizabeth of Portugal became a tertiary, also).

3) A more accurate portrayal of St. Elizabeth would be in plain clothes, modeling a nun more than a queen. I know images have to give the symbols to provide clues for identification, but for realistic depictions in dressing-up, something closer to Francis and Clare, but a little more feminine, would probably be the correct garb. The art below by Paolo di Giovanni Sts Clare and Elizabeth of Hungary c. 1445, is a little more accurate:

But don’t tell those little girls who pine to be the saint-queen. They can find out in good time. All in good time.